HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS QUIZ

from the Safe Space

Everyone deserves to be in a safe and healthy relationship. Is your relationship as healthy as you deserve? Answer yes or no to the following questions to find out.

Does the person I'm with:
  • Act extremely jealous or possessive?
  • Accuse me of flirting or cheating?
  • Constantly check up on me or make me check in?
  • Control what I wear or how I look?
  • Try to control what I do and who I see?
  • Try to keep me from seeing or talking to my family and friends?
  • Have big mood swings — getting angry and yelling at me one minute and being sweet and apologetic the next?
  • Make me feel nervous or like I'm walking on eggshells?
  • Put me down, call me names or criticize me?
  • Make me feel like I can't do anything right or blame me for problems?
  • Make me feel like no one else would want me?
  • Threaten to hurt me, my friends or my family?
  • Threaten to hurt himself or herself because of me?
  • Threaten to destroy my things?
  • Grab, push, shove, choke, punch, slap, hold me down or hurt me in any way?
  • Break things or throw things to intimidate me?
  • Yell, scream or humiliate me in front of others?
  • Pressure or force me into having sex or going further than I want to?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, you may be in an abusive relationship.

What can I do?
Break the Cycle can help: This organization provides legal information, support and advocacy to young people ages 12 to 24 and can help you learn about your options and legal rights. The services are always free and confidential. Click here to find out more about Break the Cycle.

Click here for more information on the Safe Space.